I’m Not Comfortable With Sending Nudes, But Not For The Reasons You May Have in Mind…

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I think I'm pretty. I think I'm beautiful. I appreciate all of the things my body does for me. People tell me that they admire my confidence. And yet when someone asked in a Facebook group if they would ever send nudes to their partner, it hit me that I actually don't like my body enough to send someone nudes… or to ever let someone else see me naked for that matter.⁣ ⁣ The idea that other people might find me sexy is still a relatively new concept for me. I suppose that by the time a guy asks for nudes he's already physically attracted to you (maybe even hard 🍆), but there's always the fear that I might not live up to his fantasy when he sees the real deal (phone hacking, leaks and revenge porn aside).⁣ ⁣ I've mastered the art of finding and wearing a supportive bra. I know what shapewear to buy. I look great with clothes on… But *I* know what I look like naked, and it's never been something I'm proud of. Or that I could stare at. So in my flawed deductive reason I've concluded that if I feel this way others must feel the same.⁣ ⁣ I look like I've given birth to at least five children (mind you, I've never had children – at least as far as I know 😂). I like my boobies, but my breasts are big and saggy and droopy. I have a booty-do i.e. my belly sticks out more than my booty do. Lol. While I've made peace with my stretch marks, I have backfat, rolls, folds, some hyperpigmentation and I have a tummy that hangs over my panty — I definitely don't feel attractive when naked.⁣ ⁣ I have great legs tho. And feet. And shoulders. *shimmies*⁣ ⁣ Most days I'm feeling myself and I'm celebrating #hotgyalsummer or #thotumn but lately I feel so *ick*. I tolerate what I see in the mirror. And don't get it twisted — this is not merely about weightloss or size. I've been smaller but I've always felt the same way. I'm not yet convinced that MY naked body would actually turn someone on. My clothed/half naked body perhaps…but my naked body? Hmmm. 🤔 Still not convinced. ⁣ ⁣ Apparently men see a woman's body more holistically whereas women tend to nitpick flaws…so there's that…⁣ ⁣ Looks like I have more work to do. #bodylove #lglscbodylove @lovegod_lovesex #thotumn🍂

A post shared by Simone Samuels (@simonesamuels) on Oct 24, 2019 at 8:38pm PDT

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