“I’m My Own Soulmate”: On Lizzo and Loving Your Single Self

View this post on Instagram I created this little dance to @lizzobeeating 's #soulmate. It's an entire #mood. @thuvarakas always asks me, "How's dating going?" and nowadays I'm like, "We still doing that in 2019?" I knew dating was a game, but this is foolishness. There is no point. No rhyme or reason. Just frustration … Continue reading “I’m My Own Soulmate”: On Lizzo and Loving Your Single Self

I’m Not Comfortable With Sending Nudes, But Not For The Reasons You May Have in Mind…

View this post on Instagram I think I'm pretty. I think I'm beautiful. I appreciate all of the things my body does for me. People tell me that they admire my confidence. And yet when someone asked in a Facebook group if they would ever send nudes to their partner, it hit me that I … Continue reading I’m Not Comfortable With Sending Nudes, But Not For The Reasons You May Have in Mind…

Anything Can Happen

View this post on Instagram I know how alienating and lonely this time of year can be. I have spent many a Christmas and many a New Years over the past decade wondering about my life, my purpose, frustrated with myself, incredulous about my circumstances, unenthusiastic about the future and just plain sad.⁣⁣ ⁣ One … Continue reading Anything Can Happen