On Dating, Fat Shame, Negging, Tinder and Jerks

“So whilst I am hugely turned on by your mind, your face, your personality (and God…I really, really am), I can’t say the same about your figure. So I can sit there and flirt and have the most incredibly fun evening, but I have this awful feeling that when we got undressed my body would let me down. I don’t want that to happen baby. I don’t want to be lying there next to you, and you asking me why I’m not hard.” Continue reading On Dating, Fat Shame, Negging, Tinder and Jerks

The 29-year-old Chronically-Single Lawyer and the 27-year-old Virgin/Pastor’s Kid…

A 29-year-old single lawyer and a 27-year-old virgin walk into a bar… I’m joking. But the following video is no joke. I found it sobering. I was watching an episode of TD Jakes show (I didn’t even know he had a new show!) and it just got me thinking a whole bunch of thoughts: I … Continue reading The 29-year-old Chronically-Single Lawyer and the 27-year-old Virgin/Pastor’s Kid…